I sit next to you
Can I tell you the truth?
Just not all of it
Here I am
I think of something to say
The moment quickly passes
along with my courage
So I just stay where I am
There are no words
Here I am
Sitting in one place
Sitting perfectly still
Staring at nothing
Staring into space
Hoping that you notice
Hoping that you do something
Afraid of what would happen
Afraid of feeling guilty
Here I am
“You should leave him cause he really makes me sick” ~Just Sayin’ By Five Seconds Of Summer
My best friend has been dating my ex-boyfriend for quite some time now. Yes, I agreed to this but only because I wanted her to realize that just because a person is better than your ex, does not mean they are perfect for you. But it’s taking her a long time to realize this.
He does treat her well. But he doesn’t know how to talk to people in a way that isn’t either very offensive or condescending. I did write a blog post about him a few months ago. He doesn’t realize that apologies are supposed to mean that you’ll try not to do what you’re apologizing for again and that apologies don’t just make it okay.
I remember her last boyfriend. How he made her shut me out. And I know it won’t happen again. I’m still scared. It’s difficult because I hate sharing her. I’m not in love with her or anything but I know how sensitive she is. And how easy she falls for things.
I wish she knew how difficult it is for me to spend time with them. I wish she knew that my heart cracks when they kiss but then quickly comes back together when she flashes that same smile I’ve known for years. I wish that she knew her boyfriend through my eyes. I wish she knew what she deserves.
He doesn’t know how much she means to me. He proves that almost every day. He says that he loves her. And that hurts too. Because with every crush he has he tells them that he loves them. I know that she means it and he might but there’s still a part of me thinking “but does he really?”
I won’t say she deserves me. Because even I know that there are better people for her than me. I hope that when she realizes that there are much better people out there than the ones that surround her she still chooses to drag me along to wherever she ends up.
I hope she knows that I love her very much.
“And I wish that you could feel it. But you don’t choose to believe it cause I know that you can’t see it that way.”~Beautiful Like You by Lee DeWyze
More often times than not when I call someone beautiful they disagree and then point out all their flaws or things that they don’t like about themselves.
I never said that you’re flawless or that you don’t have insecurities. I said you were beautiful. When I tell you that you are beautiful I hope you know that I admire you not only for the things that I think are absolutely perfect about you but I also say it because I know about your flaws. I have flaws too…Believe me.
I wish you could look into the mirror and see all the great things that I see when I look at you. Even if it’s for a few seconds. I wish that you could believe me when I say “You’re beautiful”. I really do think so. I wish I could convince you. But I know I’ll probably never be able to. I wish I could show you how amazing you are to me because I know the mirror whispers awful things into your ears.
Stop negatively categorizing yourself or putting a label on what you see because I what I see is you and you are beautiful.
So if I could scream all of this to you I would. But I can’t so here I am telling the world that I think you are beautiful and leaving them to ask the question “who is this about?” It’s about you……..
My heart races
My knees become weak
My mind goes blank
Is it love?
I can’t find the words to say
I can’t stop thinking about him
I can’t stop dreaming about him
Is it love?
I feel so happy
I feel so alive
I feel so excited
But I can’t help but ask…
Is it love?
When you want to write
but your mind stays as blank as the paper
When you want to draw
but it ends up being scribbles
When you want to do something
but nothing seems entertaining
When you want to listen to music
but end up skipping every single song
when you’re hungry
but nothing looks appetizing
When you want to hang out or talk to people
but everyone is busy
This is me today. I have to make a cake soon because it’s thanksgiving tomorrow. But that’s all the plans I have for today. I’m just having a lame day. Which a lazy day is good once in a while but I would much rather be out doing something.
I’m responding to the song “Somebody Else” by The 1975 as a quote today.
I think this song is so great. Definitely one of my newest songs I play on repeat ALL THE TIME! This song is one of many on a private playlist I made.
I think that everyone can relate to this song. Especially if somebody broke up with you for someone else. Because you don’t want them back but it hurts so badly to see them with that person. Even if you don’t have the same feelings for that person that you once did.
I’ve been dealing with a ton of anxiety over the past few weeks because of my most recent breakup. Mostly because of how much I regret. But most of all because I’m supposed to be happy. Because we both have somebody else. And she is happy.
I am happy. There are so many things that are going on in my life that I’m thankful and excited for.
I have a boyfriend now. He is so sweet. He holds me closer than I’ve ever been. He tells me the cheesiest things. (And that’s coming from me!) His hand in mine is the only thing that holds me together some days. His eyes are the most beautiful blue I’ve ever seen.
But what if this is just psychological projection. What if I don’t actually feel what I feel for him. It feels so real. But there’s that voice in my head saying “but what if it’s not?” I really care about him and I don’t know what I’d do without him at this point.
As I write this my hands become shaky, my heart begins to race, there is a rock sitting in my throat, I can feel the goosebumps on my arms and my stomach is turning. She will see this soon they both will. All the people I don’t want to see this will see this but they all deserve the truth. And I know I will be more than embarrassed. Because what I felt for her was real. And what she felt for me just…was not.
I’m afraid of what they will think. Will they talk about it? What will they say? Will they laugh? I don’t really want to know.
I just don’t know how to feel at this point. I probably will avoid people all day. Except for my best friend. Because I’m not afraid of saying the wrong thing to her. Because she is the best and respects what I think even when she probably shouldn’t.
I went to three concerts this summer. All of them were so great. But I saw my favorite band the other night. They are called The Struts. They are a British band with the greatest hair I’ve probably ever seen. As soon as I was introduced to them I fell in love. When I heard them the first thing I thought was “Freddy” (as in the lead singer of Queen) I started to listen to them a lot. As I listen to them I hear a bit of Queen, Arctic Monkeys and Grouplove.
They released an album called “Everybody Wants”. Being unsuccessful in Europe they decided to come to L.A to re-release their album with a new cover. After they released their album they went on their “Dirty Sexy” summer tour. (The titles “Everybody wants” and “Dirty Sexy” can be found in the lyrics to their songs “Roll Up” and “Dirty Sexy Money”)
A few months ago I found out that they were going to be in my home state and I HAD to have tickets to go. We got there super early so we could be close to the stage. We weren’t in the first row. But we weren’t far from it. There were just over 500 people there. It was hot! Between the lights and a number of people, everyone around me was sweating. I sang along to every song. They announced that they are working on a second album. I was so happy to hear it. I hope I can see them again next time they come to my small state.
After the concert, I was one of the lucky ones to know where the tour bus was. I waited for about a half hour and there they were. The Struts. I got my picture taken with them and got them to sign my “Everybody Wants” Album. After each one signed my album I gave them a hug. The night could not be better!
This band is definitely the start to the next generation of Rock n’Roll. I hope that they will be around for a very long time. There is not a doubt in my mind that by the time they are near me again it will be impossible for me to meet them. This is an experience that I will carry with me wherever I go. And they’re music will continue to inspire me as a writer, as a singer, and as a person.